I find myself frequently grappling with the pace at which I function versus the speed at which others operate. It can be incredibly frustrating when individuals express a desire to instigate change, to act, yet their movements don't match their words. In those moments, I feel like a cheetah, agile and swift, amidst a pack that can't seem to match my velocity.
But the truth is, my rapid pace, my knack for quick, decisive action, is my unique contribution to the world. It's not necessarily a trait shared by everyone. And that's something I continually need to remind myself of. Patience, after all, is not just a virtue, but an essential skill in nurturing collaborative relationships.
The thing is, if others don't pick up the pace despite my patience, maybe they weren't meant to move with me in the first place. It's not a question of their commitment or worth, but rather their immediate ability to contribute. If they lack a sense of urgency or aren't inspired enough to act, then it's better to part ways.
On the flip side, waiting can sometimes yield positive results. People may need time to sort out their personal and professional obligations before they can commit their energy to a shared vision. It's a kind of intermediary stage, where they're clearing the way to march forward at full speed. In those instances, my impatience is not only unhelpful but counterproductive, as it could potentially push them away, fulfilling a prophecy of failed collaboration.
The lesson I've learned from these experiences is to cultivate patience actively. It's not only a beautiful virtue but also a facilitator of harmonious collaborations. I can't rush people into keeping pace with me, as much as I'd like to. Yes, I can inspire them, but ultimately, they have to be ready to move at their own speed.
If they need assistance in overcoming roadblocks, I trust that they will seek my help. The kind of collaborators I desire will surely communicate their needs, ensuring we can move together towards our shared goals.
So, my task is to remain patient, understanding, and ready to assist, to make our collective journey smoother and more productive.