Reflecting on the past year and looking forward to 2024, I've realized something crucial: I need to bring more fun into my life, especially in dating and other social situations. This isn't just about having a good time; it's about embracing a different aspect of myself, one that's been overshadowed by my logical, almost "autistic" side.
In the past, I've been too focused on doing everything perfectly, from being the ideal provider to ensuring every detail in my life was in order before I could feel good. But I've come to understand that this isn't what truly attracts people or makes life enjoyable. It's about being in the moment, being present, and letting go of that need for perfection.
This year, I'm committing to being the fun guy. Not just occasionally, but consistently. I want to embody that energy that draws people in, that makes them excited to be around me. It's about breaking out of that logical headspace and tapping into my more emotional, primitive side. The side that just wants to have fun, to enjoy life, and to connect with others on a deeper, more genuine level.
I've realized that women, and people in general, respond more to the emotions you bring into an interaction than your background or accomplishments. It's about being "on state": out of your head, in the flow, and not micromanaging every interaction. This doesn't mean abandoning my responsibilities or goals; it's about finding a balance between the art of achievement and the art of appreciation.
In dating, I want to avoid being seen just as a provider or the "safe guy". I aspire to be someone women adore, someone who brings excitement and spontaneity into their lives. I pledge to keep going out, keep meeting new people, and keep taking action. I pledge to break out of my comfort zone, challenge myself, and experience life in all its fullness. I want to be an experience, not just a commodity, to the people I date.
Overall, I'm working on being present, being in the flow, and having fun. Life shouldn't just be about working hard and achieving success; it should also be about enjoying the journey, embracing the little moments, and making meaningful connections.
So, here's to 2024: a year of fun, excitement, and genuine connections. I'm ready to embrace this new side of myself and see where it takes me.